Mary Mba (Ph.D.)
This Mother’s Day, I found myself standing in front of a movie poster for Sinners, a surprise gift from my children who took me to the theater to see the film. As I stood there smiling for the camera, I couldn’t help but feel wrapped in something deeper than celebration – something sacred.
Every year, no matter what we’ve been through, my children go out of their way to honor me. One year it’s breakfast in bed, another a spa day or a handwritten note tucked under my pillow. This year, it was a movie outing and quality time. In a season that has tested my spirit and resolve, their gesture spoke louder than words: We see you, Mama. We love you. We remember everything.
I live my life for them – not in a way that erases me, but in a way that fulfills me. They are the reason I keep rising, the reason I push through days when my energy falters and my hope needs rekindling. Motherhood is the call I answered wholeheartedly. And it has answered back with laughter, love, and the kind of joy that can’t be bought.
Today, I also remember my own mother -23 years gone but still the lighthouse in my soul. Her photo remains my profile picture, not because I cannot let go, but because I won’t. She reminds me daily of the kind of woman I strive to be: strong, gracious, giving, and full of light.
To be a daughter. To be a mother. To be both at once is to live in a circle of endless love. Today, I feel held by both ends of that circle.
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This is a beautiful reflection and celebration of motherhood. I’m reminded of the many mothers before me who continue to pave the way—and those who’ve left behind the wisdom, strength, and tools for us to carry forward their legacy with purpose and grace.