Category: Lifestyle

  • The Ritual

    (modern, meditative, drag/makeup/spiritual glam tone)

    By Mary Mba, Ph.D.

    I sharpen my face with light.

    Draw bone from shadow.

    Lips from silence.

    Gender from powder.

    This is not hiding.

    This is revelation.

    Each line I blend

    resurrects someone

    I have always been

    but never been allowed to be.

    I become a woman—

    not by birthright,

    but by brilliance.

    Not by biology,

    but by brushstroke.

    Some faces arrive weathered.

    Wrinkled. Withered.

    Time-carved and ghosted by youth.

    But in these hands,

    they rise.

    High cheekbones from jowls.

    Bright eyes from years of sleep lost.

    Goddess from grief.

    Glamour from grief.

    I do not pray at altars.

    I paint them.

    I become them.

    This is drag.

    This is devotion.

    This is how we survive

    in a world that dares us to disappear.